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IGNITE! KINKY PROM - A Community Play Party Saturday, April 12 to Sunday, April 13, 2025
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It's that time of year again....it's time for PROM!!!!!


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Remember the fun (and sexual tension) of Prom? Maybe you were a jock, a goth, a nerd, or an artist. Or maybe you identify with the chaperones, chiding youthful shenanigans. No matter your style, get prepared to relive a special night with a kinky twist at Ignite: Prom!

This is going to be a fun night of play and socializing
, so come stag and meet new friends or bring a date (or two). Dig out your tux or prom dress and maybe rip it off as the night goes on. There's no dress code at this party, so whether dressed to the nines or in leather/fetish attire, wear what makes you comfortable. The great thing about prom this time around is you can do and wear what you want.

Charter a limo, ask that special someone for a dance (or a beating in the dungeon) and come join the party.


The atmosphere will be sexy and fun. Ask that special someone for a dance, or for a beating in the dungeon. Get a prom photo taken. Meet some new people. Maybe the school nurse will be there with needles or the principle with their paddle. We'll bring light snacks to fuel your sexy fun, music to play by, and we'll have a night to remember.


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Basic Info:


Admission:

Standard Admission
Non-Members: $35
Members: $25

Late Tickets (in effect one week prior to the event)
None Members: $45
Members: $25

Non-members who buy a standard ticket will receive a promo code to apply towards an SOJ membership.  Or start saving now and purchase your membership ahead of time by going to http://www.soj.org/online-orientation.


No tickets sold at the door! Doors open at 7:30p, no entry after 11:00p.


We are hosting our FREE popular Dungeon Introduction and Etiquette class at the event venue starting at 6pm. Come check out the space ahead of time and learn what to expect at the party! See below for more details.


Volunteers receive free entry to the event. The volunteer list will be posted in the Society of Janus Fetlife group.


Please review a full copy of our Party Rules and Consent Guidelines prior to purchasing your ticket. Thank you for helping us keep our community safe!


SOJ members get a $10-$20 discount off admission. Non-members who buy a standard ticket will also get a promo code to apply towards an SOJ membership. 


Or get a membership ahead of time by going to: http://www.soj.org/online-orientation


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Covid Vaccination and Testing Policy:


If you have a known, close exposure to Covid within the last 5 days, DO NOT come to this event, regardless of testing status. Your ticket will be refunded.


To attend our event, you must 


1) Be vaccinated against Covid

2) Have a picture of a negative, day-of, at-home Covid test, including your name and date in the picture


Please be ready with proof of vaccination (card, picture, state record, etc) with your vaccination card and a time-stamped/dated image of your negative rapid test taken the same day (day of the event) at the door. THIS INCLUDES VOLUNTEERS.


If you forget to test, there are nearby drugstores where you can get one and test before entering. We may have a small number of tests available for sale at the door (which are more expensive than you can buy elsewhere), but ask that you enter masked and then go outside to take your test.


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New to the Bay Area kink community? Looking to make kinky friends? Trying to discover a safe space to explore your kinks?  Let us help spark your curiosity and answer all those forbidden questions that you might have been asking yourself. 


The Ignite party series is designed to be a welcoming place for newcomers in addition to experienced players. As always, our parties emphasize socializing and meeting new people in addition to the hot scenes going on. It's all about the community coming together and having a great time, so everyone of all roles, experience level, orientations, and gender identity are always welcomed at SoJ events. Public parties are all about being able to live out your fantasies safely using the venue's equipment for play and social spaces to meet wonderful people. This is a place where you can ask questions of the party host, ambassadors, dungeon monitors, and more experienced players. Just please just don't interrupt anyone while they are playing! 


This party isn't just open to newcomers.  It is open to anyone looking for a fun and connective time with other folx in the Bay Area Kink Community.  (Please note: This party IS NOT intended to be a place to cruise for new players. Aggressive cruising will not be tolerated.  This is a place to have fun, meet people, and bring the community together.)


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Refunds and Community Access Policy

Full refunds for any reason will be honored and processed until 72 hours (3 days) prior to the event. Past that point, refunds will only be granted for known Covid exposures/positive Covid tests. You may also directly transfer your ticket to another attendee at any point.

Tickets may be transferred to another person by the ticket holder contacting us and letting us know who will be taking the ticket. A limited number of cheaper community access tickets will be made available to those with financial need.

To transfer a ticket or request a refund, please email janus@soj.org.

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Dungeon Introduction and Etiquette Program


First time in a dungeon environment? First time at a kink party? Returning after a long absence? We're here for you with our Dungeon Introduction and Etiquette class, starting at 6:00 pm and running for 60-75 minutes (up until the party starts).

This is a free educational course held right at the venue and designed to make your first time at a kink/play party easier. Come check out the space with the lights on, ask questions, and learn what to expect from your first event. Our Orientation Team will be thrilled to help you get your footing.

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Accessibility Notes


There will be music playing at a volume that fills the space, but isn't blaringly loud. Ear plugs will be available if desired.


There will be colored lighting in various areas, but we avoid rapidly shifting colors.


The first floor is fully accessible and has social and limited play spaces. The basement is only accessible via stairs and has more play equipment.


Have additional accessibility concerns? Please let us know. Email janus@soj.org


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Inclusivity


Society of Janus is and always have been an organization made up of the community and in service to the community. We are stronger for our diversity, including adults of all genders, orientations, colors, ethnicities, roles and experience levels. We welcome all who have a genuine interest in kink and who respect each other's rights to self-expression, self-exploration, and authenticity. At each and every one of our events, we will strive to maintain and enforce a respectful and safe space for all attendees in celebration of this diversity, and expect the same of all attendees.


There is zero tolerance for hate speech of any kind. Attendees who are not able to abide by our house rules will be asked to leave.


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Discord


Not ready for an in person event or want to chat to some people before coming? Then check out our affiliated Discord. https://discord.com/invite/WDWCCKu 


You can socialize, share memes, and chat. They are weekly virtual socials, and occasional game nights or watch parties. Please note, you must have a discord account setup. Discord tends to work better with a dedicated app on your mobile device or computer rather than the browser version.


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About Society of Janus


Society of Janus is and has always been an organization made up of the community in the service to the community. We are strong for our diversity, including adults of all genders, orientations, colors, ethnicities, roles, and experience levels. We welcome all who have a genuine interest in kink and who respect each other's rights to self-expression, self-exploration, and authenticity. At each and every one of our events, we will strive to maintain and enforce a respectful and safe space for all attendees in celebration of this diversity, and expect the same of all attendees.


Read our Consent Guidelines: http://www.soj.org/consent



The Society of Janus is a not-for-profit, all volunteer, San Francisco-based education and support organization devoted to the art of hot, consensual and non-exploitative BDSM.

Janus provides an opportunity to meet others with similar interests in a safe, relaxed atmosphere. Society of Janus is open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, roles, and experience levels. Janus members are from all over the SF Bay Area. We host and sponsor events in many locations around the bay.

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Registration
Standard Ticket
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Tickets for the general public. Buying this ticket will also provide you with a promotion code so you can join SOJ and enjoy the member discount in the future. The name you give on this first page does not need to be your real name. You will be asked for a scene/preferred name as well, which is what will be on the door list. Price for this ticket goes up 1 week before the event
Limited Time Discounted Price
Deal Ends: Apr 05, 2025
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$35.00
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Apr 05, 2025
SOJ Member Ticket
Deal Ends: Apr 13, 2025
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$25.00
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Apr 13, 2025
Tickets for current SOJ members only. SOJ Member # is required to purchase this ticket. One ticket per member # used. For non-members coming with an SOJ member, please buy the standard ticket. The name you give on this first page does not need to be your real name. You will be asked for a scene/preferred name as well, which is what will be on the door list.
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